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  • People v. Jackson

    June 27th, 2009 [Arts & Entertainment, General, Health & Wellness, Music]

    Been reading more about People v. Jackson (Michael Jackson’s molestation accusations). Interesting stuff. I’ve always assumed that whatever his mental state, he actually did what he was accused of doing. But I never really followed the cases closely, and never knew a lot of the details that suggest that he may simply have been an easy target *because of* his mental state. After reading this I feel even more strongly what I’ve also always believed about Michael Jackson, which is that he really never grew up psychologically.

    If you see Jackson as a fully-grown man, the circumstances surely suggest he was a pervert and a pedophile – how many middle aged men who *aren’t* pervs like to share beds with little kids?

    But think of him as somebody who never developed into an adult at all, and who never really developed those filters about the lines between adulthood and childhood and between adults and children, and suddenly things really start to fall into place. A lot of people, myself included, believe that psychologically, the guy was either permanently a child or desperate to be one again. (See also: Michael Jackson on the Couch.) The facts that *were* proven at trial and by admission (as opposed to the allegations of which he was acquitted) make a lot more sense in that light, and you could see how he could have behaved in the way he did without there being a sexual component – and how disgruntled ex-employees and a “professional plaintiff” could have had a field day with that behavior, given how it looked to the world.

    That’s not to minimize the severity of the accusations against him. Regardless of his intentions, actions, or psychological state, he should not have been so unsupervised with young children, especially other people’s young children – because regardless of his own motivations, kids should not be sharing beds with unrelated adults, and shouldn’t be learning that it’s okay for adults to act like children in certain contexts, e.g. sleepovers. If those lines couldn’t be drawn internally, they should have been imposed. And if he was guilty, he certainly should have been held accountable and incarcerated or institutionalized (depending upon diagnosis), and not had his actions indulged as celebrity eccentricity.

    But as far as his moral character goes, especially in light of his acquittals and the circumstances surrounding his accusers (not to mention the fact that Michael Jackson was what the world made him), I can only quote “Wicked” and say, “There are precious few at ease with moral ambiguities, so we act as though they don’t exist.”


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    Adam Lambert: I’m ‘proud of my sexuality’ – CNN.com

    June 9th, 2009 [General, Music, Television]

    Adam Lambert: I’m ‘proud of my sexuality’ – CNN.com.

    Biggest shocker of the year! Gee golly! Who saw that coming? That said… between him and Clay Aiken, if you told me only one of them was gay I’d have had to pick Clay Aiken. *snickers*


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    iTunes Plus – Should I Upgrade to iTunes Plus? – Deciding to Upgrade to iTunes Plus

    April 28th, 2009 [General, Movies, Music]

    iTunes Plus – Should I Upgrade to iTunes Plus? – Deciding to Upgrade to iTunes Plus

    There's been a lot of hype surrounding iTunes Plus, but you may not be quite sure whether it makes sense to upgrade the music you've purchased at the iTunes Store to the new iTunes Plus content. Though all music bought at the iTunes Store after Jan. 2008 is free of DRM, and thus is iTunes Plus music, many people have hundreds or even thousands of songs they purchased prior to the change. These people need to decide whether to upgrade. To help make that decision, here are the basics of iTunes Plus:

    [Read more…]


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    Bicycle Built for Two Thousand

    March 31st, 2009 [General, Music, Web]

    Bicycle Built for Two Thousand.

    Wow. I think I might actually have nightmares after listening to this.


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    Miriam Makeba dies after collapsing on stage – CNN.com

    November 10th, 2008 [General, Music, News]

    Miriam Makeba dies after collapsing on stage – CNN.com.

    Wow. It’s so weird, just a little while ago I was playing Pata Pata in iTunes, and now I see this headline on CNN. 🙁


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    One student comments on Wasilla’s “sex education” program

    September 29th, 2008 [Arts & Entertainment, Election 2008, General, Health & Wellness, Music, Reproductive Rights, Shopping, US]

    A graduate of Wasilla High School comments on lack of sex education:

    Abstinence-only education is great in theory, but it is not practical. For every emergency drill I went through to protect myself from an intruder or bomb threat, I think of the condom wrapped in foil and how unprotected I could have been. (Read more)


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    Jack Cafferty speaks the truth about Sarah Palin

    September 28th, 2008 [Arts & Entertainment, Election 2008, Financial, General, Music, Points & Prizes, Shopping, YouTube]

    YouTube – Jack Cafferty slams Sarah Palin!. Visit Cafferty’s blog entry for a transcript. Spend a couple of minutes reading people’s comments on this entry – thankfully most of them are intelligent comments, but there are a few that are just completely off the wall.

    But bear in mind… she may just be working hard to lower expectations before the debate, so that if she just gets through without fucking up, people will say she won.


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    New dad Clay Aiken comes out of closet – CNN.com

    September 23rd, 2008 [Arts & Entertainment, General, Music]

    In a recent People Magazine interview, Clay Aiken confirmed that he is indeed gay. I have exactly one word in response: DUH.

    But congrats to Aiken for finally being open and honest with the media!


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    Reached your limit? Deauthorizing computers in iTunes

    July 20th, 2008 [Computers, General, Music]

    Have you come across the “5 computers” error in iTunes? You know the one – it tells you that you have already authorized five computers and can no authorize new machines to play your iTunes-purchased songs and videos? If you’re like me, you’ve probably got a few “authorized” machines that died long ago, or maybe you forgot to deauthorize your work computer before you left your last job. How are you supposed to clear them now?

    Well, it turns out that you CAN deauthorize your computers within iTunes without going to each computer that’s authorized to play your songs. The catch? 1) You can only do it once a year, and only if all five slots are already filled, and 2) doing it will deauthorize all five computers. If that’s fine with you, then here’s how to do it – it’s super-easy.

    1) Log into the iTunes store in the iTunes application.
    2) Click on your email address in the top right corner to bring you to your account page.
    3) Enter your password when prompted.
    4) You’ll be taken to your account page. In the top box, the last option in that section is “Computer Authorizations.” If all five computers are authorized, you will see a button labeled, “Deauthorize All.” Click it, and you’re all set. Just remember that you’ll have to reauthorize the computers you do want to use with the files.

    That’s all!


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    Barnes & Noble – 15% off

    April 27th, 2007 [Arts & Entertainment, Books, Coupons & Discounts, General, Movies, Music]

    • Barnes & Noble – 15% off the most expensive item in your cart (on top of the membership discount!).
      • Use code Y6X3J3X
      • Expires 5/6/2007.
      • Free shipping when your order exceeds $25.

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    Last minute deals from Buy.com

    April 12th, 2007 [Accessories, Arts & Entertainment, Computers, Coupons & Discounts, General, Movies, Music, Photo, Rebates, Shopping, Technology]

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    Some great deals!

    April 7th, 2007 [Apparel & Accessories, Arts & Entertainment, Books, Coupons & Discounts, General, Health & Beauty, Movies, Music, Photo, Shopping, Technology]


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    Another Barnes & Noble coupon

    April 5th, 2007 [Arts & Entertainment, Books, Coupons & Discounts, General, Movies, Music]

    • Barnes & Noble – 15% off the most expensive item in your cart (on top of the membership discount!).
      • Use code R4J9F3V
      • Expires 4/9/2007.
      • Free shipping when your order exceeds $25.

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    Raining Jane Part II

    March 21st, 2007 [Arts & Entertainment, General, Leisure & Recreation, Music, The Social Network]

    By the way, see if Raining Jane IS coming to your town:

    Schedule below the cut: Read the rest of this entry »


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    Raining Jane!

    March 21st, 2007 [Arts & Entertainment, General, Leisure & Recreation, Music, The Social Network, Web]

    I’ve probably already talked about Raining Jane and how very wonderful they are, but now I have a new reason to yammer on about them! My friend was searching on YouTube and found a series of Raining Jane videos from a Fender show, so now you can see how fantabulous these ladies are, even if they’re not coming to your town!

    (However, if they are playing locally, GO SEE THEM. No matter how terrific these videos are, Raining Jane is a thousand times better when they’re standing right in front of you. This is pretty mellow as their performances go, and the sound quality is crystal clear but doesn’t really capture their essence.) 😀

    Convinced? Buy Raining Jane’s most recent album, Diamond Lane, on iTunes, at Amazon.com, or even better, through Raining Jane’s website.

    Desperate Sails:

    More Raining Jane awesomeness behind the cut:

    Read the rest of this entry »


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    Grammys!!

    February 13th, 2007 [Arts & Entertainment, Music]

    The Grammys were pretty awesome this year… check out the winners (ha, the Dixie Chicks and a few other people *grin*) at the iTunes store!


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    iMixes (Live from Phoenix)

    February 8th, 2007 [Arts & Entertainment, Leisure & Recreation, Music]

    Some iTunes mixes I thought you might enjoy…

    • 80’s Radio
      icon – A mix of all my favorite 80’s songs (ha, cool, the airport radio just started playing “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!”)

    • Summertime
      icon – Songs that remind me of summer. Don’t ask me why!

    There’ll be plenty more to come… I love making playlists, and I have some really great ones on my iPod.


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    Some music to check out

    February 7th, 2007 [Arts & Entertainment, Leisure & Recreation, Music]

    Well… I’m going out of town for a while (I’ll try to post a few times if I get a chance!), and I have a 13-hour airplane / airport day ahead of me. I’m just making sure my iPod is well-stocked with all the important tracks!

    Highlights of what I’ll be listening to tomorrow:

    There, that ought to keep me busy for now!


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    My first recommendation!

    February 2nd, 2007 [Arts & Entertainment, Leisure & Recreation, Music]

    If you haven’t already heard Lily Allen’s CD, “Alright, Still,” where have you been???

    When I first heard Lily Allen on NPR, I thought her song had a peppy, catchy melody. After a minute I started to catch on – she’s a pop princess, to be sure, but her lyrics are pure smartass. The album features tracks such as “Alfie,” where the narrator pleads with her brother to put the weed down and get up off his ass, and LDN, where Allen shares a side of London that only an urbanite can appreciate.

    If you don’t already have the album, here’s a taste of what you’re missing:


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